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    Resting in the question mark

    For the past few weeks, I’ve been plagued by a recurring nightmare. While each dream plays out slightly differently, they all follow roughly the same pattern: I suddenly remember/discover that, in order to pass a course/graduate, I need to hand in complex assignment/sit for a lengthy exam/attend an important class. The deadline/test day is upon me, but I’m both empty-handed and empty-headed. In a last-ditch effort to cram all the information I possibly can into my brain before it’s too late, I set out for the library to find the prescribed book/document containing all the answers.

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    Love in the time of lockdown

    If all had gone as planned, we would have been on day five of a blissful honeymoon somewhere along the Garden Route (I think…). Instead, here we are on day 14 of a 21-day national lockdown, hunkered down in our homes, movement restricted to only the most necessary excursions. The government’s noble effort to help flatten the curve of Covid-19 infections in South Africa.

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    A few thoughts on happiness

    I’ve been thinking about happiness a lot lately and how each of us seems to have a blueprint for how it should manifest in our lives. We collect moments and images and places and carefully constructed ideas of perfect people to create a bright and colourful collage against which we constantly compare our own lived experiences. Of course, it rarely measures up. Yet, still, we wonder why. My thoughts on this topic were sparked when a much younger friend – who at a glance seems to be living his best life, travelling, exploring, meeting new people, the whole shebang – expressed concern that he was not doing enough to fill…

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    A few Friday realisations

    It’s Friday, so thought I’d share a few things I realised/remembered/rediscovered this week: 1. I really love AFI… and Pennywise. Since I haven’t been listening to hardcore(ish) music as much as I used, I kind of forgot how much I LOVE these two bands. 2. Thoughts are much more fun when you think them in a Jamaican accent. Try it. 3. Kindness is always, always appreciated. 4. Sometimes leopards just need a soft spot to lay their heads at night too. 5. Platypuses have the best. walk. ever.